tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8961605850025742393.post8443483154958031630..comments2024-03-22T10:27:31.427-04:00Comments on fourwhitepaws: new challengeThe Cat Guyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17862401517530290759noreply@blogger.comBlogger15125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8961605850025742393.post-68037948773337541182012-02-06T09:32:31.323-05:002012-02-06T09:32:31.323-05:00I put Skootch on the cat version of [tuna-flavored...I put Skootch on the cat version of [tuna-flavored] Prozac, and it solved his inappropriate marking problems (which he only developed later in life). Fellaway never seemed to do anything for him. Lots of good suggestions above. I think Connie had a lot of good suggestions. It seems a shame to send Oliver away, since he has obviously bonded with you, and you to him.I hope you can work Oliver into your family!Cattywumpushttp://cattywumpuscats.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8961605850025742393.post-78341051498874419242012-01-31T04:37:02.653-05:002012-01-31T04:37:02.653-05:00As a first time fosterer I have yet to give up my ...As a first time fosterer I have yet to give up my guest, but I am assuming it is going to be hard. I would recommend Feliway like the others, they use it alot at the adoption centre where I volunteer.Stitchabilitieshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08486522750431462605noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8961605850025742393.post-35607587785114757962012-01-30T20:00:51.207-05:002012-01-30T20:00:51.207-05:00Oh I so understand your love for Oliver and he lov...Oh I so understand your love for Oliver and he loves you too. I am so sorry about the antagonism going on and the marking. But that's the least of the thing..the worse for you is your love for Oliver and trying to decide what's best for HIM. I SO hope it goes well and thank goodness you have such good advice. Oliver acts with you the way Katie did with me when she met me at the Vet office and home. She could not stay out of my arms.Katie Isabellahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04298277081648176277noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8961605850025742393.post-29440009632815679562012-01-30T18:21:40.512-05:002012-01-30T18:21:40.512-05:00Oh we are hoping things work out best for you and ...Oh we are hoping things work out best for you and for Oliver.<br />What a sweetie.<br />purrs<br />AbbyANGEL ABBYGRACEhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08777233381092226583noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8961605850025742393.post-74211464489446979652012-01-30T16:17:54.027-05:002012-01-30T16:17:54.027-05:00Totally agree Linda! Oliver sounds like a loveable...Totally agree Linda! Oliver sounds like a loveable mush! ....and he is making his wishes clear....let me in! :)Maine Kittieshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05813501266938509291noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8961605850025742393.post-45292046353055249382012-01-30T13:35:26.145-05:002012-01-30T13:35:26.145-05:00There is not much more I can add - so many good co...There is not much more I can add - so many good comments here. I have had many experiences in this - things usually work out - in time, with patience, and tolerance (re. the pee thing - I SO understand). Mr Poole after almost 2 years, still gives Tristan “attitude” – and sometimes prevents him from coming into the house. Then – as I leave for work in the morning, or in the middle of the night, there they are on the bed – bum-to-bum :)<br />Best wishes.Anyahttp://catwhisperer.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8961605850025742393.post-26739264884233580832012-01-30T11:27:48.769-05:002012-01-30T11:27:48.769-05:00There is so much good advice. I can see how hard ...There is so much good advice. I can see how hard to adopt Olive out would be for you. He is truly a sweetheart and deserves to become an indoor cat. I'm sending good wishes that all this works out.Linda @ A La Cartehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16356471099319932835noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8961605850025742393.post-61147241238969431572012-01-30T10:26:18.091-05:002012-01-30T10:26:18.091-05:00One thing we do at the cat shelter where I work is...One thing we do at the cat shelter where I work is to have the "new kitty" in a large dog crate during the intro period into a new cat room. It keeps new kitty and incumbent kitties segregated but open to smell and "conversation". Some kitties can integrate in days...some in a couple weeks. Its something to consider.....Maine Kittieshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05813501266938509291noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8961605850025742393.post-32145407547336093452012-01-30T10:17:33.058-05:002012-01-30T10:17:33.058-05:00I do recommend the book Cat vs Cat. Lots of great...I do recommend the book Cat vs Cat. Lots of great advice for getting cats in a multiple cat house to get along.<br /><br />Territory is key. Buddy is afraid he is going to lose his territory and resources, so make sure they are available at all times. Give extra food and love. Praise him for being upset at the intruder - because that is what he should be doing, but then qualify that by asking him to consider accepting the newcomer because he needs you both. Then qualify it by asking him to not be quite so vocal. etc. <br /><br />making more house isn't an option, but giving the cat access to more space actually is. Vertical space is important, so shelves on the wall, climbing trees or towers, etc. Put boxes or perches by the windows so Buddy can be up higher then Oliver - and thus in the world of cat more powerful and of higher status.<br /><br />Feliway, yes, rescue remedy a little more direct, Bach's flower essences (what RR is made of) are a little more of a direct bullet if you can find one that seems to address how Buddy is feeling a little more exactly. These are just nudges in helping the cat feel a little more relaxed, they don't (usually) produce an immediate cause and effect. http://spiritessences.com/ might also help.. (use code consciouscat for 10% off)<br /><br />an animal communicator might help you a little more directly. Talking to a cat is not like talking to a human, but it might help with some insight of what helps to make Buddy feel more comfortable and confidentConnie - Tails from the Foster Kittenshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01127077337743262149noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8961605850025742393.post-59544506662810759082012-01-30T10:12:16.551-05:002012-01-30T10:12:16.551-05:00I have thought of that, putting Buddy on a harness...I have thought of that, putting Buddy on a harness and taking him outside. Buddy is a stubborn senior who is used to getting his way and puts up quite the grumpy fight when things don't go as he thinks they should. I haven't tried a harness on him yet, but I'm guessing he will flip out. It's worth a try, Theo and Nahum have done well with the harness, Willow did too for a while.<br /><br />If I was to adopt Oliver out, I'm imaging that it would help me a lot or meet his new family and to stay in contact with them, to know he is being treated like royalty!The Cat Guyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17862401517530290759noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8961605850025742393.post-45211260324166145912012-01-30T10:04:29.183-05:002012-01-30T10:04:29.183-05:00Thanks for the great ideas.
We have done a simil...Thanks for the great ideas. <br /><br />We have done a similar process when introducing each new cat to the household and it has been very successful for us. In our tiny house, we only have two rooms that can be shut off, from the rest of the house, and they are the two bed rooms. Since the cats sleep with us in our bed, that leaves the office/junk room. I fear putting Oliver in that room as I can imagine him wanting to mark it up with his lovely pee. I suppose I can try hosing it down with Feliway spray and then giving it a go and see how he does in there.The Cat Guyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17862401517530290759noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8961605850025742393.post-11984874100417785492012-01-30T10:00:44.360-05:002012-01-30T10:00:44.360-05:00We've been using several Feliway plug-ins arou...We've been using several Feliway plug-ins around the house now for several months. I also use the Feliway spray on the back enclosed porch, because they all share the back porch. I often visit with Oliver back there and he smells around, rubs against everything and tries his hardest to find a place to spray. I hose down the back porch with the Feliway spray when I let Buddy and the others out there. Not sure it is doing all that much.The Cat Guyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17862401517530290759noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8961605850025742393.post-75969362078933379192012-01-30T09:48:31.454-05:002012-01-30T09:48:31.454-05:00We haven't tried the feliway but have heard go...We haven't tried the feliway but have heard good things. Also, we had a thought - maybe try Buddy on a harness and take him outside to meet Oliver on "neutral" ground. It can be so hard - we had Chiclet the momma cat for about 10 months and it was harder for her to let her leave than we thought - but it helped that mom got to meet her new family. You have to consider what is best for EVERYONE! And if that means not giving up Oliver, then you will make it work.Random Felineshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02591546634183113556noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8961605850025742393.post-89393776091274517582012-01-30T09:36:01.330-05:002012-01-30T09:36:01.330-05:00The feliway plug in would be a good start. It does...The feliway plug in would be a good start. It doesn't cause "overnight" change, but it did help me out in a rough patch with my own kitties that get upset with "visiting" outdoor kitties!Maine Kittieshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05813501266938509291noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8961605850025742393.post-1024289548623117242012-01-30T09:18:36.161-05:002012-01-30T09:18:36.161-05:00Patience! We have introduced many cat personalitie...Patience! We have introduced many cat personalities into our home.It takes time, patience,and a little bit of help from pharmaceuticals! (For the cat not the human). One feral male cat was placed on a 10 day course of valium to calm him down on arrival.All newbies are placed in their own room for at least two weeks. Then we place the newbie in another room and let the oldies explore the newbie's room. We keep doing this over two weeks,then allow the newbie short supervised visits into the main house. We keep a plant spray bottle to hand.ANY signs of agression and the agressor gets squirted.<br />You can use Feliway spray or plug in atomizers in the house..it is a natural product that comforts cats in a new /strange enviroment...it mimics the scent of a mother suckling her kittens. We have one cat who pees when stressed, we have discovered (after years of discussing his behaviour with our lovely vet)tht he is autistic...so normal cat behaviour rules do not apply. He has "clomicalm" to help him cope with his world. It is available from the vets but is not like valium or other hard core drugs. Right now Buddy sees Oliver as an outsider,until you try Oliver inside you can't assume it will never work. It may take weeks or months but it's worth a try.<br />Jane xJane and Chrishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08102086552682194819noreply@blogger.com